![]() ![]() In the beginning, I felt the lack of my mom deeply, in every experience we should have had together. I was lucky to have gotten my first period before she passed, but I'd never used a tampon or medication for cramps, so these were things I later had to bring up to my dad. In the first few years after her passing, I was on the verge of tears every time an issue associated with moms or women came up. I'm afraid a second may come as "standard" or worst, and I'll regret my decision hundreds of times.I lost my mom when I was 11. When people ask me why didn't I had a second child, I always say: "Look at my daughter. Since newborn she always slept at least 6hours straight, is rarely sick, eats everything we put on her front, likes fish and salad/vegetables, I can count with one hand her child tantrums and she made only 2 in public (now at 14y we have arguments often, but are usually negociated, some days she ends upset but accepts my demands, others I have to give up some minor rules and trust her jugdement), is a great student, well behaved, helps random people she sees in need, and receives appraisal from her teachers and people around. I love my daughter, she is, under a general view, a perfect child. I'm a lucky momma, but I completely understand people who don't want children, and that must be respected! I'm afraid a second may come as "standard" or worst, and I'll regret my decision hundreds of times." ![]() ![]() ![]() A friend of mine says: "Children are the best and the worst we have in our lives." ![]()
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